It has been quite some time since I have written in this journal. One of my resolutions for this new year is to write daily and to continue my narrative of my family history in a second journal of mine, titled "Presence of Mind".
This past year has been so violent and troublesome. If each of us could practice the concept of peace within our own heart, the world would know greater peace. It is the little actions done on a daily basis that can make all the difference. At the age of 63 (soon to be 64 in February), I have come to realize that searching for the deeper meaning in life has to start with the little everyday things. Thinking before I speak. Considering the needs of others before my own. Seeking God every day with every word and deed.
I am convinced that the cell phone, modern communication, and immediate gratification has led man down a slippery slope. Remember, when I was a child in the forties and fifties, life was so simple. There was no internet, cell phones, Blackberries, and all the other gadgets that keep us connected twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week. We did not shorten our words or our thoughts because we were so busy...we took time to talk directly to each other or to write to each other. Because we could not reach a loved one immediately, we considered our words and deeds carefully, knowing the time we did have together was to be cherished. I admit I do have a cell phone and make use of the internet, but I do not leave my cell phone on and limit my time on the computer. I truly do believe what has made this nation so self-serving is the demand for immediacy in every facet of life. As a result, many do not know how to wait....whether waiting on God or pondering what to do in life or even deciding what to do tomorrow or next weekend. That is what makes a person cut in front of you on the freeway, only to get off at the next exit or be unwilling to give you time to consider their words.
Take time to reflect. Take time to see your surroundings. Take time to remember what your loved one's face looks like. Take time to wonder in the everyday. Time is not meant to be spent quickly but to be savored for every minute aspect of one's being.
1 comments:
Hi Mom,
Yay!!! You're writing!!! I'm so glad. And, I loved this entry. I firmly agree that our modern conveniences have cost us more than we've gained. We do need to be present, in the moment, and deliberately consider our words and actions. I'm so grateful that you raised me to do just those things. Although, I've strayed and have enjoyed the instant gratification of always being connected. But, deep down, I long for the simplicity of old. That's something I long to return to as well. Love you!!!! Happy New Year!!
mO
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